Join us for the Traditional Wedding of

Lotta & Dayo

Dec 19, 2026 | Onitsha, Anambra

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Together with our families, we would like to invite you to celebrate with us at our Traditional Wedding — the Inu Mmanya.

#LOve4DAys

Our Love Story

Two students, two birthday parties, one love story.

Lotta & Dayo
Lotta & Dayo
Lotta & Dayo

Lotta & Dayo's Love Story

We met at a mutual friend's birthday party (thanks, Alyx). At the time, we were two university students preoccupied with assignments and deadlines, so we didn't speak during our first encounter.

Luckily for us, there was a second birthday party where we finally got the chance to talk. To this day, the jury is still out on what that conversation was about. Dayo says it was about music, while Lotta begs to differ.

We went on our first date in February 2019 and made things official that summer. What started as a mutual "Let's see where this goes" blossomed into years of talking, laughing, arguing, growing, and persevering through life's challenges—including two and a half years of long-distance dating.

Through all the changes, we never forgot to have fun together.

Dayo proposed a little after sunset, during our 6th anniversary trip to Greece.

Event Details

Saturday · 19th December 2026

Inu Mmanya

  • Saturday, 19th December 2026
  • 2:00 PM — Arrive on time for prayers & family introductions
  • Vegas Astoria Hotel & Suites, GRA, Onitsha 434106, Anambra
  • Wine presentation, dancing, speeches & cultural celebration
  • Expected wrap-up by 7:00 PM — followed by music & feasting
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Dress Code

Come draped in colour. Wear your culture, wear your joy — let the room reflect the celebration.

Bride's Side

Lotta's Family & Friends

Men: White with a magenta cap

Women: Magenta aso-ebi

If not purchasing aso-ebi, please wear magenta.

To purchase your aso-ebi:

WhatsApp Link →

or contact Ani Modebe+234 803 321 8958

Magenta
White

Groom's Side

Dayo's Family & Friends

Men: White with a champagne gold fila

Women: Champagne gold aso-ebi

If not purchasing aso-ebi, please wear champagne gold.

To purchase your aso-ebi:

Purchase Aso-Ebi →

or contact Yinka Oyewale+234 803 663 7634

Champagne Gold
White

Travel & Accommodation

We recommend arriving on the 18th (a day before). Both airports below are easy and well-connected.

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Closest Airport

Asaba International Airport

Multiple daily flights to/from Lagos & Abuja.
Airlines: Air Peace · United Nigeria · Aero Contractors · Arik Air
Drive: ~50 mins to Onitsha

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Alternative Airport

Chinua Achebe International Airport

Smaller airport, 1 daily flight to/from Lagos & Abuja.
Airlines: Air Peace · United Nigeria
Drive: ~40 mins to Onitsha

Airport pickup & drop-off with security escort will be provided. Message our transport contact to arrange.

Where to Stay

Vegas Astoria Hotel & Suites

Venue Hotel

Vegas Astoria Hotel & Suites

Stay steps from the ceremony. GRA, Onitsha — the most convenient choice.

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Violet Suites

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Violet Suites

Comfortable & close to the venue. A relaxing stay with everything you need.

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De Lumen Hotel & Suites

Also Nearby

De Lumen Hotel & Suites

A great option in Onitsha. Comfortable rooms and easy access to the venue.

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Need help arranging transport?

Temisan Ilukwe

+44 7704 270 640

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Your presence is our greatest gift. Let us know you're coming so we can celebrate together in the most joyful way.

Please respond by 5th November 2026

Celebrate Us

Your presence is more than enough. But if you'd like to bless us with a gift, we are deeply grateful.

View Our Gift List

Browse our curated gift registry and find something special for us.

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Cash Gift

A monetary gift is a wonderful way to help us build our new life together.

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In lieu of a gift, a donation to a cause close to our hearts would mean the world.

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Account Details

Send a cash gift with love

🇬🇧 United Kingdom

Account Name Geraldine L Ilukwe
Account Number 74888460
Sort Code 30-94-77

🇳🇬 Nigeria

Account Name Adedayo Adeyemi
Account Number 3219888199
Bank First Bank

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"Two of us, we can make it if we try — just the two of us" 🎶

Frequently Asked

Everything you need to know before the big day.

Inu Mmanya means "wine carrying" in Igbo. It's the traditional engagement where the groom and his family present gifts and ask the bride's family for her hand in marriage. Think of it as the official "we're doing this" moment — full of prayers, culture, music, and celebration.

Expect a lot of colour, music, dancing, and culture! There'll be traditional introductions, a wine presentation, prayers, dancing, and speeches from both families. The vibe is festive but respectful — you're witnessing a centuries-old tradition.

Bride's side: Men in white with a magenta cap. Women in magenta aso-ebi. Contact Ani Modebe (+234 803 321 8958) or Chineze Ibeagi (+234 814 262 9353) for your aso-ebi. If not purchasing, wear magenta.

Groom's side: Men in white with champagne gold fila. Women in champagne gold aso-ebi. Contact Yinka Oyewale (+234 803 663 7634) for your aso-ebi. If not purchasing, wear champagne gold.

We're starting at 2:00 PM and expect things to wrap up by 7:00 PM. There'll be enough time for all the traditions plus good food and music.

Photos and videos are welcome throughout the Inu Mmanya. We just ask that you're respectful during prayers and key traditional moments. Capture the joy!

Not at all. An MC will guide everyone through what's happening. We're excited to share our culture with you. Come ready to learn, laugh, and celebrate with us.

It's also worth knowing this is an inter-ethnic wedding — Lotta's family is Igbo, while Dayo is Yoruba. So you'll experience a beautiful blend of both cultures throughout the day. Everyone is welcome, no matter your background!

Your safety is our priority. Vegas Astoria Hotel & Suites has 24/7 security and controlled access. We'll also have dedicated event security staff on-site throughout the ceremony so everyone can relax and celebrate freely. There will also be provision for airport pickup and drop-off with security escort.

For further info, kindly contact Temisan Ilukwe on +44 7704 270 640. We'll be happy to help!

Contact & Enquiries

Have questions or need help? Reach out — we'd love to hear from you.

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Temisan Ilukwe

General Enquiries

+44 7704 270 640
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Ani Modebe

Bride's Aso-Ebi

+234 803 321 8958
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Yinka Oyewale

Groom's Aso-Ebi

+234 803 663 7634

Traditional Wedding RSVP

Lotta & Dayo

19th December 2026 · Vegas Astoria, Onitsha

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Daalu! Thank you!

Your RSVP has been received. We can't wait to celebrate with you on the 19th!

With love — Lotta & Dayo